Widow Wednesday: Giving Up Hope

Several months ago, when I was dropping the kids off at my Grandmother's house, my attention was caught by a story on the TODAY show. The story was about a person who had woken from a coma.  I tend to notice all of those stories, but then this had the phrase I hate. The patient woke up when, "the family was just about to give up hope". This isn't just a pet peeve. This phrase cuts me to the … [Read more...]

Widow Wednesday: Protecting the Dead

Sometimes, after people die, we make them into better people than they were when they were alive. Speaking ill of the dead is just not something you're supposed to do. So how do you share information about your loved one without it feeling like you're speaking ill? I worry that if I am not completely honest with Nicholas about Mark's life that he will have a warped image of his biological dad … [Read more...]